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janney | 16. 07. 2008 | 21:35 | Reakcí: 6 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 18 758

Hi girls.So argument with my Terry - again.Not that big deal I just said few words how I am sad he didn't make time to say Good night to me in e-mail.I thought it takes him one minute and it would be a big help for me.I wasn't to nice about it, ( I said something that he maybe rather watch a movie tan spend some time on e-mail for me)but why I should be allways nice and say that he is perfect in every way when he is not?....I don't know what to tell him in e-mail.But I have to send you this part of his e-mail.I got angry, because it seems like he is saying I am not doing anything important and he is so busy.I can not believe that he can not see how hard job I am doing here Well, it can be just my subjectiv feeling, so I am asking you for help, for your opinion.Maybe it sounds that bad only for me and You won't see that.Maybe it's just the stupide english.Thank you so much.Here it is:You may be bored and sitting around the house all day waiting for something to do, but I'm the one who is gone most of the day and I get home about three or four hours before I go to sleep every night. That's all the time I have to do laundry, take care of bills, make calls (like to Budget), go shopping, cook, shower, EVERYTHING!!!! I have to do all of that in the little time I have every night and then when I'm done I might get some time to watch a movie, or play my guitar. God, I must be such a terrible person for taking an hour to myself every day. But of course, you're right. If I get tired and fall asleep without writing you an e-mail then it must mean I don't love you. Real smart, Jana.I don't know if I'll call tomorrow. This shit is really making me angry.........................................................So what you thingk? Would it make you angry and sad how it made me???Sometime I wish him to take care of Viola and everything that I have to only for 24hours, how tired he would be

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Neznámý | 18. 07. 2008 | 09:34 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 0

Janney, I think you shouldn´t write him every day. All men around me were angry if their girlfriend wrote them every day. The mne think it is too difficult to answer them as well as boring...I can understand you need some kind of contact but men are different. I must tell one thing: when my husband travels anywhere for some days, I never call him or write him - I always wait if he will call (write) me - then I answer him.Do it the same way and you will see Terry will write you not so many letters but really lovely letters.

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janney | 18. 07. 2008 | 09:51 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 18 758

@ Hi.Things got better again when I didn't tell him I love him for 3 days.I only sent him some pictures of Viola and importatnt informations about office stuff we need to deal with. I understand what you are saying, but the difference is in that he is not traveling.When he was moving back tu USA and going for interview and had to do all the stuff, I didn't wrote him that often.But now, he is at home on his computer every single day and how he said by himself, he is bored.So I thought just to say "Good night" wouldn't hurt. I think it is the smallest thing he can do while he had to leave me here alone with baby for four months( and than longer).Yes, I know it is my side and men are different. Fortunately He just sent me realy nice e-mail that he is sorry if he didn't realize how much hard work I do here and how important I am for him.So I hope it is getting better again.The bad thing was we got to deep in talking about what we don't like on the other person and I guess nobody likes to hear it.Thank you all

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Neznámý | 18. 07. 2008 | 15:43 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 0

@janney OK. That´s fine, things went better I wish to stay this way ...

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Katka1980 | 17. 07. 2008 | 16:13 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 785

I think his e-mail isn't that bad, it's about normal working persons live. He may be agitated about your situation; he would like you close and talk to you in person. Give him some space and how about writing just 2 or 3 emails (calls) a week, you may appreciate each other a bit more. Terry obviously doesn't know how hard it is to look after your daughter and he will found out as soon as you are together.We had a similar situation. I used to work different hours than my boyfriend and we used to see each other only in bed some weeks. Our house was just a place to sleep in, not a home. If we wanted to talk we used emails, phones or written notes. Separation is not good for any relationship. Everything will get better when you are together!!

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janney | 17. 07. 2008 | 16:42 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 18 758

@Katka1980 Thank you girls.I just talked to him.I wrote him back in a nice way, but I also told him he has no idea how much work I have.I told him he doesn't have to call if he doesn't feel like it.I want him to do that because he feels, he needs it too.I got another e-mail back when he was saying he feels like I am pushing on him to much to write me and I am not giving him space to breath.UfI answer that again that I will try to not say anything when he is late to call or not send an e-mail, but i also told him that he should appreciate more my effort here.No e-mail of theese contain any "I love you" so as our phone call.None of us wanted talk about it, but I am glad I told him few things by e-mail, that bothers me on him.I hope that will be better when we talk on saturday, because I just will stop with so many nice things I was writing him for now....I feel stupid when I do and he doesn't.Thanks

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nadule1 | 17. 07. 2008 | 14:47 Počet příspěvků v diskuzích: 67 555

Well, it seems to me, that he has no idea how much work is up to you now. He obviously got angry with you - maybe because he just wanted to hear that he is perfect and you are angry from the same reason... I mean - this is really hard time for both of you and I can see no sense in writing each other such emails. I think that you both do great job!!! I do understand why you are angry. But try to write him in better tone ... I think he would appreciate it... I really believe that everything will be better when you two are together again.

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